Etiquettes and Supplications Pertaining to Death

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مروي عن الأئمة المعصومين عليهم السلام في كتب الأدعية والزيارات المعتبرة.
Virtues, description, and recitation method of ETIQUETTES AND SUPPLICATIONS PERTAINING TO DEATH as recorded in Shia traditions.
ETIQUETTES AND SUPPLICATIONS PERTAINING TO DEATH
When signs of death appear to someone, he more than
anyone else must prepare himself for receiving it, because
he will start a journey from which he will never return;
namely, the journey to the Other World. In this journey, he
requires suitable provisions. The first thing he must do is to
confess of his sins, admit of failure to do what ought to be
done, show regret at the wrongdoings he has done, declare
pure repentance, weep for himself, implore the All-holy God
for forgiveness, and pray Him to stand by him and not to
leave him alone facing the imminent shocks and horrors.
As a second step, he must pay considerable attention to his
will; he must therefore fulfill his liabilities and duties towards
Almighty Allah and people and must not entrust others to do
so on behalf of him. He will very soon lose any control over
his properties, rather, he will not be able to do anything rather
than watching sorrowfully how his properties will be spent. In
fact, the devilish jinn and human beings will inspire evil
things to his heirs in order to prevent them from absolving
him from the financial liabilities and he will have not
stratagem other than shouting, "My Lord, send me back
haply I may do good in that which I have left!" Yet, this call
will not be heard and regret will not be helpful anymore.
In this respect, one who feels his imminent departure of this
life must bequeath one third of his properties to his relatives
and to charitable purposes in a way that corresponds to the
financial situation. Legally, a legator has no right to dispose
of more than one third of his legacy.
The next step is that he must absolve himself from his
obligations towards his brethren-in-faith, ask those whom he
had backbitten, insulted, or injured to forgive him if he can
contact with them, and ask his present brethren-in-faith to
ask the absent ones to release him from any wrongdoing he
had done to them.
He must then nominate somebody as his guardian over his
immature sons and entrust a trustworthy person with
managing the affairs of his children and family members. Of
course, this step, as well as all other steps, must be
preceded by putting full trust in Almighty Allah.
The next step is that he must prepare his shroud (i.e. grave-
clothes), in case that he has not already prepared it, and to
order that the supplicatory prayers and holy verses, which are
too many to be mentioned in this thesis, must be written on
his shroud with a liquid made of a mixture of water and soil
taken from Imam al-Husayn's holy tomb. However, a true
believer must always have his shroud prepared. In this
regard, Imam al-Sadiq ('a) is reported to have said,
"Whoever
has his shroud kept in his house, will not be registered with
the inadvertent ones and will be granted a reward whenever
he looks at it."
One who is near death must no longer think of the future of
his family members, sons, and property, rather, he must think
of nothing except the All-holy God and must understand that
such transient matters will not help or save him neither in
this world nor in the other world, and nothing will help except
the kindness and mercy of Almighty Allah. Hence, if one puts
his full trust in Almighty Allah, the affairs of his household
will certainly go well. It must be also known for sure that no
one, be he alive or dead, can provide any help or fend off any
harm unless Almighty Allah wills so, since He, Who has
created the beings, is more compassionate to His creatures
than anyone else. As a result, one who is near death must be
full of hope for the mercy of his Lord and must entertain
expectation of the intercession of the Holy Prophet (s) and
the Holy lmams ('a) and wait for their coming at the hour of
death. In fact, it must be known that they all come at the last
hour of death to convey good tidings to their loyalists and to
ask the Angel of Death to be lenient to the dead who has
been faithful to them.
In Misbah al-Mutahajjid, Shaykh al-Tusi says that it is
recommended to pay much attention to the last will, which
must not be belittled by every human being. In this respect, it
is reported that one must not spend a single night without
having his will placed under his head. This advice becomes
more emphatic in cases of ailments. Hence, one must write
down his will as excellently as possible and must absolve
himself from the liabilities and responsibilities towards
Almighty Allah and towards His servants.
ETIQUETTES AND SUPPLICATIONS PERTAINING TO DEATH
When signs of death appear to someone, he more than
anyone else must prepare himself for receiving it, because
he will start a journey from which he will never return;
namely, the journey to the Other World. In this journey, he
requires suitable provisions. The first thing he must do is to
confess of his sins, admit of failure to do what ought to be
done, show regret at the wrongdoings he has done, declare
pure repentance, weep for himself, implore the All-holy God
for forgiveness, and pray Him to stand by him and not to
leave him alone facing the imminent shocks and horrors.
As a second step, he must pay considerable attention to his
will; he must therefore fulfill his liabilities and duties towards
Almighty Allah and people and must not entrust others to do
so on behalt of him. He will very soon lose any control over
his properties, rather, he will not be able to do anything rather
than watching sorrowfully how his properties will be spent. In
fact, the devilish jinn and human beings will inspire evil
things to his heirs in order to prevent them from absolving
him from the financial liabilities and he will have not
stratagem other than shouting, "My Lord, send me back
haply I may do good in that which I have left!" Yet, this call
will not be heard and regret will not be helpful anymore.
In this respect, one who feels his imminent departure of this
life must bequeath one third of his properties to his relatives
and to charitable purposes in a way that corresponds to the
financial situation. Legally, a legator has no right to dispose
of more than one third of his legacy.
The next step is that he must absolve himself from his
obligations towards his brethren-in-faith, ask those whom he
had backbitten, insulted, or injured to forgive him if he can
contact with them, and ask his present brethren-in-faith to
ask the absent ones to release him from any wrongdoing he
had done to them.
He must then nominate somebody as his guardian over his
immature sons and entrust a trustworthy person with
managing the affairs of his children and family members. Of
course, this step, as well as all other steps, must be
preceded by putting full trust in Almighty Allah.
The next step is that he must prepare his shroud (i.e. grave-
clothes), in case that he has not already prepared it, and to
order that the supplicatory prayers and holy verses, which are
too many to be mentioned in this thesis, must be written on
his shroud with a liquid made of a mixture of water and soil
taken from Imam al-Husayn's holy tomb. However, a true
believer must always have his shroud prepared. In this
regard, Imam al-Sadiq ('a) is reported to have said,
"Whoever
has his shroud kept in his house, will not be registered with
the inadvertent ones and will be granted a reward whenever
he looks at it.'
One who is near death must no longer think of the future of
his family members, sons, and property; rather, he must think
of nothing except the All-holy God and must understand that
such transient matters will not help or save him neither in
this world nor in the other world, and nothing will help except
the kindness and mercy of Almighty Allah. Hence, if one puts
his full trust in Almighty Allah, the affairs of his household
will certainly go well. It must be also known for sure that no
one, be he alive or dead, can provide any help or fend off any
harm unless Almighty Allah wills so, since He, Who has
created the beings, is more compassionate to His creatures
than anyone else. As a result, one who is near death must be
full of hope for the mercy of his Lord and must entertain
expectation of the intercession of the Holy Prophet (s) and
the Holy Imams ('a) and wait for their coming at the hour of
death. In fact, it must be known that they all come at the last
hour of death to convey good tidings to their loyalists and to
ask the Angel of Death to be lenient to the dead who has
been faithful to them.
In Misbah al-Mutahajjid, Shaykh al-Tusi says that it is
recommended to pay much attention to the last will, which
must not be belittled by every human being. In this respect, it
is reported that one must not spend a single night without
having his will placed under his head. This advice becomes
more emphatic in cases of ailments. Hence, one must write
down his will as excellently as possible and must absolve
himself from the liabilities and responsibilities towards
Almighty Allah and towards His servants.