Appearing Istikharah for Others

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مروي عن الأئمة المعصومين عليهم السلام في كتب الأدعية والزيارات المعتبرة.
Virtues, description, and recitation method of APPEARING ISTIKHARAH FOR OTHERS as recorded in Shia traditions.
APPEARING ISTIKHARAH FOR OTHERS
It seems to be worthwhile to quote the following words of
Sayyid Ibn Tawus in this respect:
"Although I have not put my hand on a tradition (i.e. hadith)
that openly permits people to make Istikharah for others, 1
have actually found many traditions involving
encouragement on helping others settle their needs even by
means of praying God to help them or acting similar helpful
devotional acts. Other traditions have conveyed very much
benefit for those who pray for their brethren-in-faith.
However, because these benefits are well known by
everybody, I will shun referring to them.
Istikharah is one of these requests and supplicatory prayers,
and to make Istikharah on behalf of others is definitely
included with the traditions of encouragement on helping the
brethren-in-faith, because when one is asked by one's brother-
in-faith to make Istikharah on his behalf, this request will be
related to the one who makes Istikharah, therefore, he will
either make Istikharah for himself or for the requester. As for
making Istikharah for himself, it must entail that whether it is
or it is not useful for him to guide the one who has asked him
to make Istikharah on his behalf to do or not to do the matter
for which he has asked for Istikharah. As for making
Istikharah on behalf of the person who has asked for so, it
must entail that he makes Istikharah so that the person
would do or would not do the matter for which he has asked
for Istikharah. Of course, the latter may be understood from
the general indications of the traditions about Istikharah and
the other traditions about responding to the others who ask
for something.
In this respect, 'Allamah al-Majlisi, may Allah have mercy on
him, says that the Sayyid has permitted making Istikharah on
behalf of others is not inaccurate to some extent, especially
when the deputy intends to guide the asker for Istikharah to
do or not to do that thing. To this point has the Sayyid made
a reference. However, this is not direct ruling, because this
matter requires a reference taken from the special traditions.
More precautiously, the one involved in the matter for which
Istikharah is required must make the Istikharah himself,
because we have not seen any tradition involving entrusting
others with Istikharah on one's behalf. Moreover, if this were
allowable or acceptable, the companions of the Holy Imams
would have asked the Holy Imams to make Istikharah on
their behalf. If this had ever taken place, it would certainly
have been reported to us in one report at least. Finally, the
distressed person deserves response and his prayer for
himself entails more sincerity than if it is done on behalf of
him.'
APPEARING ISTIKHARAH FOR OTHERS
It seems to be worthwhile to quote the following words of
Sayyid Ibn Tawus in this respect:
"Although I have not put my hand on a tradition (i.e. hadith)
that openly permits people to make Istikharah for others, 1
have actually found many traditions involving
encouragement on helping others settle their needs even by
means of praying God to help them or acting similar helpful
devotional acts. Other traditions have conveyed very much
benefit for those who pray for their brethren-in-faith.
However, because these benefits are well known by
everybody, I will shun referring to them.
Istikharah is one of these requests and supplicatory prayers,
and to make Istikharah on behalf of others is definitely
included with the traditions of encouragement on helping the
brethren-in-faith, because when one is asked by one's brother-
in-faith to make Istikharah on his behalf, this request will be
related to the one who makes Istikharah, therefore, he will
either make Istikharah for himself or for the requester. As for
making Istikharah for himself, it must entail that whether it is
or it is not useful for him to guide the one who has asked him
to make Istikharah on his behalf to do or not to do the matter
for which he has asked for Istikharah. As for making
Istikharah on behalf of the person who has asked for so, it
must entail that he makes Istikharah so that the person
would do or would not do the matter for which he has asked
for Istikharah. Of course, the latter may be understood from
the general indications of the traditions about Istikharah and
the other traditions about responding to the others who ask
for something.
In this respect, 'Allamah al-Majlisi, may Allah have mercy on
him, says that the Sayyid has permitted making Istikharah on
behalf of others is not inaccurate to some extent, especially
when the deputy intends to guide the asker for Istikharah to
do or not to do that thing. To this point has the Sayyid made
a reference. However, this is not direct ruling, because this
matter requires a reference taken from the special traditions.
More precautiously, the one involved in the matter for which
Istikharah is required must make the Istikharah himself,
because we have not seen any tradition involving entrusting
others with Istikharah on one's behalf. Moreover, if this were
allowable or acceptable, the companions of the Holy Imams
would have asked the Holy Imams to make Istikharah on
their behalf. If this had ever taken place, it would certainly
have been reported to us in one report at least. Finally, the
distressed person deserves response and his prayer for
himself entails more sincerity than if it is done on behalf of
him."